I was married for 17 yrs but ever since I've gone to a wheelchair, (neuropathy in legs & have a spinal cord injury that has caused the nerves in my legs to "misfire" & I can no longer walk or stand) ...when my condition worsened my wife asked for a divorce... I'm looking for a lady to talk with first, then see what happens...I believe that a man must be a good listener & have a keen sense of humor -- two traits I believe women admire the most in a mate..