After four and a half years post SCI nerve regeneration is well underway. Paralyzed below the nipples originally. Now i feel touch to 95% of that area but not distinction between pointy and dull contact. My core muscles reactivating and every workout introduces me to a new muscle but no movement below the waist. I do get fantastic erections but short lived when t try to relive myself And then there is 2 hour erection that wakes me up and stairs at me for no reason.
My situation now is i am assaulted by explosions of sensations of this entire area including the genitals. This can go on for days . Married for 30 years plus i know a fair amount about relief methods, sex was good and i was open minded. But i now have this body which will not perform to meet my needs. I feel very aroused ,stimulated ,and horny for extended periods of time. i have read the literature and understand the new look of my potential sex life.
The question is "How do you deal with this"
I am open minded and would appreciate any feedback.
You can use any terminology for body parts or sexual descriptions or activities.
I would also like hear from the ladies if they have similar situations. Thanks so much