chatroom bullying

Oh yes..One other thing before anyone takes-sides.....and how PATHETIC does that sound..Lets take sides and have A Go at making someones life hurtful....There is a member of over 4 years who has been HOUNDED from this site by so-called Good Members ..she is very unwell with her condition and frightened to return......These so-called HERO members decided they didnt like her and extended her nickname by adding ROO .....Beginning to sound familiar people..Of course it is because you all took sides and scared her off......YOU HEROS SHOULD HANG YOUR HEADS IN SHAME AND LEAVE THIS SITE WITHOUT A BACKWARD GLANCE....YOU ARE NOT WANTED ON HERE BY THE REAL MEMBERS SO GO AWAY AND CRAWL DOWN YOUR HOLES .....:evil: :evil: YOU KNOW WHO YOU ARE

Thank you Tony for telling it as it is!! We have a hard time getting through day to day without stupid spats and name calling! For goodness sake guys this site is supose to be here to make our lives alittle easier! open a window into the word so we can speak to other people with disabilities and maybe make friends! NOT go into chat rooms and make each others lives miserable!
If we really and I mean really want to keep these chatrooms open we need to get these people who are involved in the 'bullying' incident together to sort out there differences and oppolgies. So we can bring a close to this matter and go on with our tuff lives! For goodness sake what are we children in a playground or adults with disabilities I do wonder somedays! And to the people who say I am sticking my nose into something I wasn't involved in. I am trying to mediate with you all who caused this major uproar to bring a close to the matter so we can go on enjoyin this excellent site or do you just want to carry it on a ruin the site for everyone?

Name calling is dhildish and i can say i never have to anyone on here but i have had uneeded coments made to me for what reson i dont no i have always tryd to be nice to people on here but it dos not allways work.
i will get on with anyone who will me i dont ask for trubal from anyone but have had it.
i had somone pop at me for my spelling but its a problem i have i dont pop at other people for things that are rong with them. i try to understand and lern from what im tould we all have problems of one sort or another but we should at lest try and get on with one an other

Name calling is dhildish and i can say i never have to anyone on here but i have had uneeded coments made to me for what reson i dont no i have always tryd to be nice to people on here but it dos not allways work.
i will get on with anyone who will me i dont ask for trubal from anyone but have had it.
i had somone pop at me for my spelling but its a problem i have i dont pop at other people for things that are rong with them. i try to understand and lern from what im tould we all have problems of one sort or another but we should at lest try and get on with one an other

P.A.B.1961 wrote:

Name calling is dhildish and i can say i never have to anyone on here but i have had uneeded coments made to me for what reson i dont no i have always tryd to be nice to people on here but it dos not allways work.
i will get on with anyone who will me i dont ask for trubal from anyone but have had it.
i had somone pop at me for my spelling but its a problem i have i dont pop at other people for things that are rong with them. i try to understand and lern from what im tould we all have problems of one sort or another but we should at lest try and get on with one an other

The site reflects society...we get nasty so-and-so s on here just like in anyones own neighbourhood.....Although why these people try to join sites like this and be abusive to others defies logic to me... Karl and Ablehere have to sometimes make judgement calls to stop the good members from leaving .... Disruptive and offensive and abusive people need to be banned and I, for one, will continue to be supportive and give my opinion when asked...or when I witness such events....We shouldnt need Room Monitors,we should all be adult enough to police the site ourselves ....What has gone on this week is Pathetic and in my opinion been dealt with swiftly and effectively....I know exactly what IVE seen and heard and it has discusted me that members can act like scum and thugs...Be assured...people who abuse others wont be here very long

After what you have told me and explained to me Tony, I agree that the rot that was eatting away at this great site has been cut away.I hope all this can be put behind us now. (These seem to be those famous last few words! everytime I say them something happens!!lol) I really hope everyone can enjoy the chat room and get on well and that if anyone thinks they can say just one bad thing to another member the AbleHere team will imediately ban them! The chatroom is put there for the enjoyment of AbleHere members so go ahead and enjoy it!!

I will drink to that Bubba..... Just to add one final word on the subject I have received a quite abusive email from The BULLYING HEROS..in which I and Others running this site are all PERVERTS and SHE states that I am an Old Bitter Pervert who spends my time getting ladies from the site on web cam and do PERVERTED things...I have no idea where I get the time as Ive been here for far too many years and posted in excess of 11,000 entries in the forum....If anyone wishes to see the full email with my repsonses please mail me and I shall be happy to forward it to you.....Think it confirms why they are banned and why they should NEVER be allowed back on site xxxx

And on a closing thing on the matter,Now I know the full truth and the banned couple text me to say now I know the truth they understood I would no longer want to be friends with them. I would like to opologies to everyone on here for not believeing you all and I am sorry for not listening to your warnings! I took in the lies of these people and stood up for them when they where upsetting others. I feel a right idiot and I hope in time you will find it in your hearts to forgive me.

hi i think its totally un fair to ban people that have a laugh and a joke and the ones that are rude stay on the site

Sweetcheeks, the people who where banned where banned for a reason, I was taken in by them and I have learned they where the nasty ones. Tonypark has emails to prove it if you would like to see them to clear your mind he would be happy to send them to you. And as for what you say about nasty people still being on the site, if someone is bullying you, you must send an email to HereAble to inform them so they can weed the bad eggs out.They can only take action if we help at our end as well. Together we can make this site an enjoyable place to meet new friends.

sweetcheeks1,980 wrote:

hi i think its totally un fair to ban people that have a laugh and a joke and the ones that are rude stay on the site

Nothing wrong with Having-a-laugh...Im all for it...However, attacking people and inciting others to pick on them...leaving them in tears...is BULLYING..plain and simple....These Bullying Heros arent nice people who have a drink and tell jokes..They are vindictive.....selfish....arogant....bitter and twisted ....who seem to get pleasure from the demise of the more vulnerable.
If you want an Unprotected Site willing to sit back and allow others to cause pain....it wont be here....

you have my full backing, i also know how bad it is to be bullied,i hate it when someone is bullied i,ve been on the end of bully,s and i,ve been hurt it,s soul distroying:(