Long distance relationship

A cuddle is very important. To me a real relationship is also important, if you want casual sex with no real feelings involved thats up to you, it did'nt work for me in the sixties. Girls who slept around were regarded as slappers and sluts, I dont agree with that either, if you want to sleep around its your choice its your life.

It so happens that the soul we need one person, but for intimate relationships need another.

I'm sorry Andrea I don't understand what your saying! I agree with Sadie, a real relationship involves cuddling as well as touch so you can feel the love between your partner.
My ex and I where together for a month than he had to move to Scotland due to family problems, we spoke on the phone every night and I thought all was fine. When he came to see me for a weekend on a visit I found a photo of a woman in his wallet when I asked he said it was his sister (which he never mentioned all the time we where together!). Two months passed since he moved to Scotland and I telephoned him to tell him we needed to cancel his upcoming visit due to a family gathering and his mother picked up the phone and said 'I thought you and Simon had broke up', I was shocked and said no, where did she think he was of a weekend. 'She answered on work jobs because he needed the money now his girlfriend was pregnant and they needed money to pay for there new flat!!' She was as shocked as I was. So that there is a reason why I know long distance relationships don't work!!

Andra wrote: Nothing. It is funny to find the difference between real relationship and distance relationship.

What are you saying? That a distance relationship isn't real? Your the one who said your long distance of 8 years was doing fine, so isn't that real?

Andra wrote: It so happens that the soul we need one person, but for intimate relationships need another.

The definition of the word 'soulmate' a person ideaily suited to another as a close romantic partner who connects with you in every way and on every level.

If you are really lucky you will find one man who pushes all your buttons, floats your boat, thats a real relationship that can last forever, you have to work at keeping that bond between you, if thats not what you are looking for, then you can purchase a night of passion, with no strings attached. The choice is always yours.

Yes it was by internet and we never met.

Do you think it is normal to rummaging through things of your ex and arrange his interrogation?

Andra are you saying if you thought your fella was cheating you would'nt check his phone and texts. I'm sorry sweetheart you must be one strange lady, come on lady members would you check or not. I would check then he would get a serious slap and then I would dump him, and arrange a night of passion no strings attached. lol :whistle:

I thought my husband was cheating once (before we where married) I'd gone to a concert with my friend up in Manchester so we where gone most of the day and nearly all night. And the next day I got a call from a friend who was married to my OH's work colleague and she said wow your fella had a good night with out you! his bosses daughter was hanging off him most of the night! Well I was ready to put his balls in a vice and cut them off I'm telling you! He came to see me that evening and my face must have been a picture, he was like a frightened child explaining that his bosses daughter was drunk out of her mind and kept wanting to dance with him so he had to literally fireman's lift her to a seat and she kept standing up and he had to keep putting her back. Eventually his boss took her home! And his mate and others vouched for him! Another strange thing he had was a black eye. He's mate explained they where so drunk they couldn't drive and when he got out the taxi and said goodbye to his friend he turned and hit his face against a lamp post! Well I couldn't help but fall on the fall laughing! And as I say what goes around comes around. If he wants women falling over him blind drunk he has to pick a fight with a lamp post!! :lol: And I warned him if I ever hear he and his mates are lieing I will still put his balls in a vice, and he knows I'm not joking!!

What's that old saying, treat them mean, keep them keen

haha exactly!!