Cyber Love

well.for starters each could do their own thing when off line...no moneys to fork out...no bills to pay and live a world of dreams...lol

Still, for some...company for each other can make it worthwhile...lol

Smiler75 wrote:

well.for starters each could do their own thing when off line...no moneys to fork out...no bills to pay and live a world of dreams...lol

Still, for some...company for each other can make it worthwhile...lol

Its beginning to look interesting.....could even retire early xxxx

I agree with you Tony,it is starting to look intresting
Dont think I would be brave enough to do it
I am not a good lyer and have enough hassle in the real world :laugh:

Ohhh Cyber .....I thought it was Kyber ( as in carry on up).......Ooooo no misses,dont get many of them to the pound..... Now theres a thought for another topic...Carry On Inuendos xxxx :whistle:

Sorry Smiler,back to seriouse response....The one main problem that I can see is the differing levels of effort afforded by the two participants.....
If one has a bad day in the Real world its only natural to think....I cant be too bothered tonight.....Or,how does someone growing up and living in Mexico relate to a mother of 5 living in a block of flats in Bethnel Green.....Bit too much pretence for my liking xxxx :whistle:

One has to start somewhere and if GROUND RULES are established first, and in the end it's only a online friendship that could blossoms into a attachment but that would be breaking that thin red line of reality.
somebody who's always at the other end of the pc's modem to chat with, someone to share one's thoughts, a online confidant, someone who listens to your woes..oh the good happy times included..Some ppls just want a close friend to chat with without the complications of the reality of it all..
To share a problem with a 'devils advocate' can be a relief to the other person, and possibly broaden their way of tackling a subject / problem..

Just my thoughts

Smiler75 wrote:

One has to start somewhere and if GROUND RULES are established first, and in the end it's only a online friendship that could blossoms into a attachment but that would be breaking that thin red line of reality.
somebody who's always at the other end of the pc's modem to chat with, someone to share one's thoughts, a online confidant, someone who listens to your woes..oh the good happy times included..Some ppls just want a close friend to chat with without the complications of the reality of it all..
To share a problem with a 'devils advocate' can be a relief to the other person, and possibly broaden their way of tackling a subject / problem..

Just my thoughts

Put like that,makes perfect and rational argument for it...my compliments

Thanks Tony

heheeee...Take your time cheeky;) you have all the time in the world..lol..:laugh: :laugh: :laugh:

sorry .... i dont it taken me some time and after hearing ur views to am still not sure to be honest
i thinks easier online than in person. i once had a relationship with someone online it was great but then when we did meet it all went pear shaped and we saw each other in a different way ... i guess what am saying is that u can make the person into something they not in your mind and its easier to see what u want to see in a person
so is that loving the person u think u know or the person u want them to be ..


sorry if that makes no sense to people ... x

cheeky_monkey17 wrote:

sorry .... i dont it taken me some time and after hearing ur views to am still not sure to be honest
i thinks easier online than in person. i once had a relationship with someone online it was great but then when we did meet it all went pear shaped and we saw each other in a different way ... i guess what am saying is that u can make the person into something they not in your mind and its easier to see what u want to see in a person
so is that loving the person u think u know or the person u want them to be ..


sorry if that makes no sense to people ... x

Agree with you there Cheeky:)

Ah yes Cheeky I agree with you there, but you broke the thin red line between cyber and reality, I'm refering to having common bond of online friendship, no matter how close or deep it went..
I was of course refering only to the cyber world..once you make a physical connection,, that's a new ball game although in your case it all misfired and to that end..I feel sorry for you and the outcome....hence a close friendship - online only..:ohmy:

But hey!, it's only my opinionB)