Sex

Well I believe if you are completely honest with people about your disability from the beginning they will know what they are in store for. That way if you are open and honest about each others wants it could be strictly a sexual fulfilling encounter for each of you or maybe perhaps something else long-lasting. But with open dialog so you both know what you want ahead of time and there is no preconceived notions of a long-term relationship if it's going to be just a sexual relationship things will work out just fine.

Well said tony and loco. There is a difference between love naking and humping and complete honesty is always ALWAYS the best way forward. Lady M xx

No argument from me there xxxx

hi lady m
im teddy tony and i have spoken so he knows me please dont take exseption to this question i dont know you im afraid so i dont know if your disabled or not so if you where a fit young lady and i zoomed up to you on my viper rs wheel chair with go faster strips lol:woohoo: :woohoo: and said\" hellooo baaaby\" do ya fancy a jump would you in your honest opinion go with a disabled person.I PROMISE I WOULD NEVER SAY THAT ANYWAY BECAUSE
1 IM NOT LIKE THAT
2 I HAVE MUCH RESPECT FOR LADIES
3 TOO MUCH RESPECT FOR MYSELF
4 IM UGLY :lol:
5 IM TOO WELL HUNG:P

Real people will look past the disability and fall in love with the real person, My husband and I met while I was still fully able, my illness snuck up on me slowly and took hold. So my hubby saw my body change from full heathly person who enjoyed long walks and going night clubbing to a frail person who needed help walking and required a wheelchair to go out shopping! We married when I was collasping while walking and no one could understand why, and needed several weeks off work. When I eventually had my body scan and needed to stay in hospital, my husband was with me when we got the results. When they told us I had osteo-porosis and told us how my life would slowly turn out, the first thing I did was turn to my husband and told him to file for divorce from me. He turned to me and told me to never again say that and he married me for me and not the shell that held me.I thought that was so true, of us.We still have an amazing sex life as there are so many positons to have enjoyable sex when you are disabled!So if someone can't love you for your shell then they are not worth it, As I have said to many of you on this site I believe there is somebody for everybody, and you will find your solemate when you least exepect it.

There are people to have sex with out there, and if you physically able nothing wrong with sorting yourself out with the use of toys for men such as these

Surely sex toys cant give you the enjoyment as the real thing can?

I find some toys can be better than the real thing sometimes. Its down to personal preference I suppose

Yes i a Gree with you there if you are a lone but if you have someone to have S** with have it with thenm also you cab have friend to hasve S** with if you just what to be friends

Racheldewsbury wrote: I find some toys can be better than the real thing sometimes. Its down to personal preference I suppose

I think sex toys are more for women rather then men! :huh:

Also if you are looking to have s** with someone else other than your partner and you can't find anyone toys maybe the answer

Iagree with Karl...sex is not a bad work so dont blank it out. And the internet is a great place to be someone else if thats what makes you confortable x