I think my sexual appetite is too strong.I often cannot stop thinking about the tastes and sensations that I like about sex.I wish I could go into more detail here,but I will restrain myself.But if anyone would like to talk more,message me;)
Indubitably! The problem arises (no pun) if you want but can't get. I've known physically impaired people who wouldn't even consider another person unless they were 'able bodied' and others who were prevented by narrow-minded parents or professional carers.
I like the IDEA of sex. But the DOING is something else. I'm married to someone who is now not interested nor functional so if I want it I have to fly solo. But having the chronic pain I do, sometimes quite severe, I know that the consequences of engaging in just about any sexual activity will worsen my pain for days. It's like being punished or something. I hate this.
Jana, I'm impressed by your openness and honesty, not many would be willing to share in that way.
The knowledge that pain will follow even the solitary act, and for days, is a horrible thought... so sad. The thought of your dilemma, the mind saying yes but the certainty of bodily distress intervening is almost too awful for me to think about.
Please don't think my interest is prurient, it's just that I find it easy to empathise with need frustrated, pleasure and the release of tension denied.
I could write more, perhaps I've written too much already, I'll only add my hope and wish is that in some way this aspect, at least, of your life improves.